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Hi all. It's been awhile since we updated, hopefully you didn't totally give up on us. Our biggest news now is that on Saturday, April 30, we had the privilege of going back to good ole Ann Arbor to see marycateandashley graduate from Nursing School! It was sort of a surprise. We called her only a week before we saw her and filled her in. Yes, it sounds nuts, and at 1 am Saturday as we pulled into a motel in Michigan City, Indiana and took their last room, we, for a second, thought we were nuts ourselves.
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Mary-Catherine receiving her diploma!
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But, seeing Mary-Catherine graduate and knowing that Little Al would have been so proud, made it all worth it. Ryan and I both said we felt like proud parents ourselves watching her walk across the stage and get her diploma. She was last in line, and as she was walking down the stairs of the stage, she looked up right at us and smiled. HMMM...Little Al must have been there guiding her! What made the day even better is that we were invited back to spend a little time with her family and friends at her home. After having met her parents, we now understand how MC got to be the wonderful person that she is. We couldn't stay long, so unfortunately had to steal her show a little bit and have her open our gift. We had taken a picture of MC holding Little Al the week of the second surgery when we had met her for dinner. We blew it up and framed it for her "baby wall."
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Of course, then, there we all were, Mary Cate, Ryan, Holly, and Mrs. Steer just crying and crying. But of course, it was a good cry. Mary-Catherine helped us so much while Little Al was here, and after he was gone. She is going to be a wonderful nurse, and the Children's Hospital in Philadelphia is gaining a huge asset by hiring her! MC - we love you, can't thank you enough, and wish you the best of luck as you start your wonderful career of helping all those wonderful babies. They are going to be lucky to have you as their nurse!
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The Steer family Caroline, Lea, Mary Catherine, and Bernie
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We also had the wonderful privilege of meeting Rachel York who's son, Jason was at U of M at the time. When Little Al was born, Jason was recovering from his second surgery. He has been in and out of the hospital with various difficulties, but are now home more or less. The sad news came last week that her father-in-law had died, and we send Rachel and her family our deepest sympathy.
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Holly, marycateandashley, and Ryan
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We started back on Saturday after graduation, stopped at the Trump Casino in Gary, Indiana to try to relax and enjoy each other, while at the same time winning some money. Now we are settling in back home.
On Sunday,May 22 we leave on the annual fishing trip, where I will be the only and the first woman to go! Then Ryan and I are meeting our best friends in Minnesota to continue our vacation canoeing. Since we haven't had a real vacation in over a year,we are both looking forward to getting out of here, relaxing and enjoying being close to nature which is making us both feel like we will be closer to our son. For some reason, we both just have this feeling that he will be very close by us while we are up North, and probably catching all the big ones before we even have a chance!
We hope you still check in every once in awhile even though we have not been very faithful in updating our story. We are moving forward in our grieving, although I have to admit that sometimes, I'd just rather not move on at all. We have reminders everywhere everyday of Bubby, and we wouldn't have it any other way. We talk to and about him daily, and think about him constantly, all while trying to move on to a more normal life. Our new normal is very hard to get used to, but we will do what we have to for our family and each other.
Please keep Corbin Grabb in your thoughts for the next couple of weeks. They arrived back at the U of M this week where he will undergo another surgery. Little Al has strict instructions to look after little Corbin for us!
We love you and thank you all for your continued love and support!! Holly and the Miller family
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